feat: Add LOCK_TIMEOUT connection setting

[etinquis]

This PR adds a new lockTimeout connection setting, which sets LOCK_TIMEOUT (https://learn.microsoft.com/en-us/sql/t-sql/statements/set-lock-timeout-transact-sql) along with the existing connection preamble statements.

Before submitting a PR :

1. Ensure your fork is created from master branch of the repository.
2. Run npm install in the root folder.
3. After bug fix/code change, ensure all the existing tests and new tests (if any) pass (npm run-script test-all). During development, to run individual test use node_modules/nodeunit test/<test_file.js> -t <test_name>.

  # 1 (unrelated?) test failure; I'm running against an ephemeral docker db, if it's relevant: docker run --rm -it -e ACCEPT_EULA=Y -e MSSQL_PID=Express -e 'MSSQL_SA_PASSWORD=yourStrong(!)Password' -p 127.0.0.1:17000:1433/tcp mcr.microsoft.com/mssql/server:2022-CU19-ubuntu-22.04
  824 passing (35s)
  11 pending
  1 failing

  1) MessageIO
       #startTls
         handles errors that happen during TLS negotiation:

      AssertionError: expected 'ERR_SSL_SSL/TLS_ALERT_HANDSHAKE_FAILU…' to equal 'ERR_SSL_SSLV3_ALERT_HANDSHAKE_FAILURE'
      + expected - actual

      -ERR_SSL_SSL/TLS_ALERT_HANDSHAKE_FAILURE
      +ERR_SSL_SSLV3_ALERT_HANDSHAKE_FAILURE
      
      at /home/etinquis/Projects/tedious/test/unit/message-io-test.ts:566:20
      at processTicksAndRejections (node:internal/process/task_queues:105:5)
      at async Promise.all (index 0)
      at Context.<anonymous> (test/unit/message-io-test.ts:551:7)

5. Build the driver (npm run build).

> tedious@0.0.0-dev build
> rimraf lib && babel src --out-dir lib --extensions .js,.ts && npm run build:types

Successfully compiled 100 files with Babel (1642ms).

> tedious@0.0.0-dev build:types
> tsc --project tsconfig.build-types.json

7. Run eslint and flow typechecker (npm run lint).

> tedious@0.0.0-dev lint
> eslint src test --ext .js,.ts && tsc

9. Run commitlint (node_modules/.bin/commitlint --from origin/master --to HEAD). Refer commit conventions and commit rules.

# Had to install commitlint, still fails
⧗   input: feat: Add LOCK_TIMEOUT connection setting
✖   Please add rules to your `commitlint.config.js`
    - Getting started guide: https://commitlint.js.org/guides/getting-started
    - Example config: https://github.com/conventional-changelog/commitlint/blob/master/%40commitlint/config-conventional/src/index.ts [empty-rules]

✖   found 1 problems, 0 warnings
ⓘ   Get help: https://github.com/conventional-changelog/commitlint/#what-is-commitlint

Thank you for Contributing!

[codecov]

Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 66.66667% with 2 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 78.82%. Comparing base (77800dd) to head (fa6d281).
⚠️ Report is 13 commits behind head on master.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
src/connection.ts	66.66%	1 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️

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