[fix][cp] Fix Sort and Spill std::vector for rows memory not tracked causing OOM

[WangGuangxin]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #191

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Description

Spark query failed by killed by yarn because the memory overhead exceeds the threshold.
std::vector for rows should be tracked by memory pool.
Need to refactor everywhere if the std::vector is allocated by rows, this is a first PR.
Reserve the memory for the std::vector for rows and prefix sort required buffer.

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